Still water, strong mind

Tuesdays are for that post-swim glow



Today there were no big epiphanies in the water. My mind was steady and my body felt light. It’s amazing how movement can shift your whole day. The new morning routine is becoming something special — alarm goes off (no snooze), gently waking the girls, breakfast together, getting ready for school, a little playtime before loading into the car for drop-offs. Then it’s off to the pool. Today I was greeted by an empty one. Just me, the lane ropes, and the rhythm that’s quickly becoming my new normal. 20 laps in and I realised I wasn’t alone anymore. The swimmer next to me struck up a chat. It’s funny how swimming — even when you’re in your own lane — can still be social. Since moving, I haven’t been as connected as I’d like, so a friendly smile and a good chat really made my day. 40 laps down and my new lane buddy was cheering me on. A confidence boost I didn’t know I needed. 60 laps down, I pushed the last 200m racing imaginary competitors down the pool. And when I touched the wall, it hit me. I’ve already completed my 15km goal — and we’re not even halfway through March. For a moment I just paused. I didn’t think I’d get there this quickly. I honestly thought 15km would be a stretch. Maybe this is my reminder to believe in myself a little more. So where to from here? I keep swimming. Because every lap helps support youth mental health and the services young people need when life gets heavy. Still water. Strong mind.

Getting into the swing of things



Today I clocked another 1km. Not bad considering I haven’t properly swum in almost eight years. Each lap, my mantra is simple: 1–2–3–4, breathe. With every repetition, my mind settles. The outside noise quietens. The problems that felt heavy before I got in the water start to shrink. In the rhythm of stroke and breath, I can recognise the tension I’ve been carrying — in my shoulders, in my jaw, in my thoughts — and slowly release it. Today I challenged myself to swim using only my upper body. No kicking. I even raced myself, just to push beyond what I thought was my limit. Not to prove anything to anyone — just to remind myself I’m capable of more than I think. Life is a learning journey. One day at a time. One lap at a time. Rain, hail or shine. Still water. Strong mind. @lapsforlife.aus #lapsforlife

Day 2



Today I clocked another 1km. Not bad considering I haven’t properly swum in almost eight years. Each lap, my mantra is simple: 1–2–3–4, breathe. With every repetition, my mind settles. The outside noise quietens. The problems that felt heavy before I got in the water start to shrink. In the rhythm of stroke and breath, I can recognise the tension I’ve been carrying — in my shoulders, in my jaw, in my thoughts — and slowly release it. Today I challenged myself to swim using only my upper body. No kicking. I even raced myself, just to push beyond what I thought was my limit. Not to prove anything to anyone — just to remind myself I’m capable of more than I think. Life is a learning journey. One day at a time. One lap at a time. Rain, hail or shine. Still water. Strong mind.

Still Water, Strong Mind



Some days, life feels like a stormy sea. Work, parenting, and the weight of everything can churn inside me — fierce waves of stress, worry, and emotion that seem impossible to calm.

Swimming gives me a pause. Each stroke becomes a way to ride the tide, to let the storm pass without being swept away. In the water, I remember: even the wildest waves eventually settle, and so can we.

I swim for youth mental health, to shine a light on how important it is to care for our minds. 

I swim for myself, to stay grounded, to honour my emotions, and to practice steady routines that strengthen both body and spirit.

I swim for my children, to show them that mental health matters, that small, consistent actions — one stroke at a time — create real change, and that taking care of yourself is a form of courage.

Sometimes, staying afloat starts with just one lap.

Still water. Strong mind.

Our Impact

Impact

So far We’ve raised $932 to provided 232.975 young people experiencing mental health difficulties with vital support.

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🏊‍♀️ You’ll smash it Hayllie, nice work!!

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Well done Hayllie, a huge effort for a very worthy cause xx

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Well done Hayllie!!! Xo

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