Regina Gerlach

Why I swim

The short answer to the question 'Why I swim?' is because I love swimming. The longer answer is everything below. Water never asked anything of me. No resistance. No weight. Just held. From the very beginning of my life, I was drawn to it. If no one could find me at home, they'd find me at the lake. I was four years old the day I nearly didn't come out of the water. A man sun bathing on the deck saw me under water. He pulled me out. Saved my life. For months after, I couldn't tip my head forward to let my mum wash my hair. But water called me back. It always does. At the age of 17 and 18, I earned my bronze. Then my silver. Kept going. Years later, when I received a cancer diagnosis, I returned to the pool. Lap after lap. Something about moving through water reminded me I was still here — still moving. I'm cancer free now. Still swimming. This March, I'm swimming for something bigger again (4th time). Too many young lives are lost to suicide. Too many kids are carrying unbearable weight with nowhere safe to put it down. Working in mental health, I see this. I feel the urgency of it every day. Our young people are under enormous pressure — and the resources to support them are nowhere near enough. Every lap I swim this Laps for Life raises funds to make sure there's a safe place for young people to turn when life feels overwhelming. That a hand reaches down before it's too late. The way one did for me. So I swim in gratitude. I swim in hope. And I swim for every young person who deserves to find their way back to the surface.

Swimmer
Suicide remains the leading cause of death for young people in Australia. More than 1 in 3 are experiencing mental health difficulties, yet over a million are not getting the support they need. ReachOut provides anonymous, free and 100% online services so young people can find a safe place to connect, share and get help when life feels overwhelming. I’m taking part in Laps for Life to make sure these vital services are always there. Please donate to my fundraiser and help more young people get the support they deserve.

My Swim Progress

Completed

8.00km (160 laps)

My goal

20km

My Impact

Impact

So far I’ve raised $1,073 to provided 268.1975 young people experiencing mental health difficulties with vital support.

Top Donation

Donation top

$128

Heide Fisher

Shoutout to Heide Fisher – my biggest supporter so far with a $128 donation to help young people get the mental health support they need through ReachOut!

Funds Raised

Note: displays max previous 3 years of fundraising only

My Updates

Day 2 rhythm is found within
It’s a public holiday here in WA. And as you can imagine, the pool was busier than usual. More swimmers in every lane. In the past, this would have felt off-putting. I might have waited another hour, hoping a lane would free up so I could swim alone. Only to eventually accept that today (and many other days in the past) simply wasn’t going to offer that kind of space. Realising that, in itself, is mindful practice. There is rarely an ideal situation, like … The perfect lane. … The perfect silence. … The perfect timing. Instead of waiting or resisting, I decided to just get in - into the full lane. Into the imperfection. It’s an interesting exercise — squeezing in, finding your place, adjusting your pace among others. Without getting caught up in judgments. Who should really be in the fast lane? Who belongs in medium? Who is in the “wrong” place? Those thoughts come easily. But they don’t help. They tighten the body and narrow the mind. It is what it is. And right there is a choice point. Do I resist the conditions — or accept them? Do I focus outward — or tune inward? When I shifted my attention to my breath as a focus of attention, something changed. Inhale. Exhale. Reach. Glide. Gradually, a rhythm emerged. Not perfect. Not uninterrupted. But steady. Flowing. Patience is not passive waiting. Patience is active acceptance. And in that acceptance, the swim became effortless — not because the lane was empty, but because I stopped fighting what was present. How often do we postpone things until circumstances feel “just right”? When it’s quieter. Easier. More convenient. Yet life rarely arranges itself around our preferences. It invites us to meet it as it is. Interestingly, toward the end of my swim, I had the lane to myself for a couple of laps. And yes, it felt spacious. Calm. But it didn’t feel better than before. Because the real shift had already happened. Maybe that’s the quiet lesson of a crowded pool and life: There is no perfect situation. There is always an opportunity. To find your rhythm. #lapsforlife
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Changing lives

Tomorrow is Day 1.

Day 1 of showing up.
Day 1 of moving our bodies with purpose.
Day 1 of reminding ourselves — and each other — that we can make a difference.

When “I Can’t” Feels True

There’s a quiet voice many of us know well.
It says: I can’t.
It won’t matter.
Nothing really changes.

Often, that voice isn’t weakness — it’s history. It carries old beliefs shaped by our experiences, our disappointments, and the learned message that no matter what we do, nothing shifts. Psychologists call this learned helplessness — the feeling that our actions don’t matter.

But here’s the truth: learned helplessness can be unlearned.

Change doesn’t always begin with something dramatic. Sometimes it begins with a single lap. A single donation. A single message of encouragement.

Why Youth Mental Health Matters

Young people today are navigating a world that is fast, complex, and often overwhelming. Anxiety, depression, isolation, and uncertainty are not rare experiences — they’re increasingly common.

Access to safe, anonymous, and free mental health support can be life-changing. It can mean:

  • A young person reaching out instead of withdrawing.

  • Someone feeling heard instead of invisible.

  • Hope replacing silence.

When we support youth mental health, we invest in our future — not abstractly, but directly. These young people are our tomorrow.

Why Laps for Life Matters

Laps for Life isn’t just a swimming challenge. It’s a powerful reminder that action — even small action — creates impact.

You don’t have to be an athlete.
You don’t even have to swim.

If you can swim, you swim.
If you can donate, you donate.
If you can share, you share.
If you can cheer someone on, you cheer.

Every role matters.

Supporting a swimmer is not “less than” swimming. It is partnership. It is solidarity. It is saying: I’m in this too.

And something beautiful happens when people come together around a shared purpose — we reconnect. We realize we’re not alone. We feel the energy of collective action. Motivation grows. Community forms.

Proof That We Can

In times when the world feels heavy and change feels distant, it’s important to pause and notice:

Right here.
Right now.
We can do something.

We can create access to support.
We can fund conversations that save lives.
We can replace “I can’t” with “I’m part of this.”

That shift — from helplessness to participation — changes us as much as it changes the outcome.

Tomorrow Is Day 1

Tomorrow we begin.
Not because we have to.
But because we choose to.

We choose to show young people that they matter.
We choose to turn movement into meaning.
We choose to prove — to ourselves and to others — that our actions count.

Whether you swim, support, donate, or simply spread the word: you are part of something that makes a real difference.

And that matters.

Let Day 1 be the day we remember:
We are not powerless.
We are connected.
And together, we can change lives.

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Thank you to my
supporters

$128

Heide Fisher

A great effort for a great cause.

$106.12

Gruen-tec.consulting

As every year it's for good cause. Keep it up.

$106.12

Regina Gerlach

$106.12

Matched by Gonski Foundation

$106.12

Anonymous

$106.12

PNI Foundation & Antipodes Partners

Your donation has been matched thanks to our generous partners.

$94.86

Kamil Rogozinski

A very honorable cause. Thank you, Regina, and all the best in reaching your target.

$75.14

Mindfulness2Be

$64.67

Laura Pope

Go Regina xx

$56.24

Hertha Collin

Love your passionate spirit

$54.12

Daniela Nickel

You are amazing😘🌹

$52

Andrew Wanden

Great cause.. thank you

$17.16

Andrew Dijkstra

Great cause! Good luck

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